Archive for September, 2009

Are Humans Affected by Pheromones – How?

September 30th, 2009 by admin | Posted in Enhancement   Comments Off

Human pheromones have been a hot topic of discussion in today’s dating business. But before you know how pheromones affect human life, you need to know what pheromones are?

Pheromones are basically chemicals released by the human body as a natural course of life. This chemical is particular known for its communicative nature; it conveys silent emotions between the living creatures. Human pheromones have a strong connection to the sex or gender in general. Both males and females have their own different sets of pheromones. While humans know only how to respond to those pheromones coming from another human, other living creatures also share the same within their own species.

Whilst pheromones are abundantly present in insects and animals in the form of a thick secretion, the presence of a strong elusive and invisible odor is a mystery till date. It is said that a typical nasal cavity is found in humans and mammals called vomeronasal organ or VNO, which is primarily responsible for the detection of pheromones.
How pheromones affect human life and that of other living creatures is still being studied, but it has been proved in the past that they are very effective in every aspect.

Human pheromones are basically known to trigger the level of attraction between two sexes. In fact, pheromones are related to those days when there wasn’t any proper mode of communication, as in language, speech or anything else for that matter. Today however, human pheromones are being bottled with the use of some scientific formula and sold as a surefire way to attract the opposite sex.

But do pheromones really work? Well, this indeed is a million dollar question. Pheromones are now available in the form of scents, perfumes and colognes of different varieties and different price ranges. With so many benefits (presumed) of pheromones in increasing the sex appeal attracting women and getting a hot date, it sometimes seems that yes it works. Nonetheless, it is still mystery for most of us.

What is supposed to be produced by the body naturally is now being sold in bottles as perfumes. Seems strange!! But scientists and researchers are now trying very hard to understand these vapors and the mystery behind the same. Whilst there are different findings none of them can explain the existence of pheromones and what lies within that is believed to create or initiate certain responses. There are countless theories, but not enough evidences to support the same.

There are so many theories that you would simply fail to believe one. Nonetheless, most of the theories are dubious and not really clear and hence you cannot rely on them. But if you still think that you want o take a chance and see it for yourself, well you can always buy yourself a bottle of those pheromones deodorants and sprays and judge the same.
Pheromones have worked for some people but not for all. If you are the lucky one, it might work for you as well.

Medical Concerns of Using Vibrators

September 30th, 2009 by admin | Posted in Enhancement   Comments Off

Some people wonder if using vibrators can harm them. Getting information in sex toys is usually difficult. Sometimes you can ask questions but rarely do you get trustworthy answers. Harm can of course come from inserting a vibrator that is too thick or from pushing one in too far, but are there more hidden dangers?

Here are some tips about the medical concern of using vibrators.

It has been questioned if the vibration from the vibrator can desensitize the user.

It seems the answer to it is yes but unlikely. Rather than the harm caused to fingers when using vibrating tools throughout ones working life, prolonged exposure to strong enough vibrations can deaden the nerves in the erogenous zones too. However, the amount of exposure is the key. Very few people will use vibrators so much that such an effect will be noticed. Maybe some people are more sensitive than others are and if you suffer from any sort of nerve problems then it would be a good idea to get medical advice.

If you are concerned if the use of a vibrator make having pleasure other ways more difficult, that is based on both psychological difficulties and neutral pathway changes.

Some people may find that they get such strong pleasure with vibarator that they prefer vibrators induced to any pleasure achieved in other ways. This could lead them to find it more difficult to pleasure without a vibrator than they did before. This effect could be caused by psychological expectations and even the training of the nerve pathways to respond more strongly to vibration rather than touch\stroking. In rare cases, the reward of strong pleasure may result in obsessive behavior.

Despite these possibilities, problems for most people are unlikely. It is best to try to keep variety in your sex life and even increase that variety. In taking effort to do this you are unlikely to be trapped into having to use a vibrator.

There are also many people, particularly women who find achieving pleasure very difficult to start with and often it is only by using a vibrator that they can have one.

Materials: Vibrators and dildos are made using a wide variety of materials. The common materials are silicone, PVC (polyvinyl chloride), latex, glass, acrylic and various others from hard plastic. Because sex toys are usually sold as ‘novelty products’ they are generally not covered by any sex toy specific regulations. Of these materials, none is considered particularly harmful especially as sex toys are normally used only on an occasional basis.

However, there are some concerns for the additives used in making PVC soft and pliable-phthalates. These chemicals are known to be significantly harmful and there are suggestions they can and do leach out of the PVC. It is advisable to use sex toys not made out of PVC where they will be used for long periods of time, for instance bull plug or a harness toy that is to be worn for extended periods.

It is also necessary to take care if you are susceptible to allergic reactions. Finally, there is the question of hygiene. If you do not share your sex toys then the risk of problems is low.

Guidelines to Your In-flight Sex

September 24th, 2009 by admin | Posted in Sexuality   Comments Off

The Handjob: This is among favorites for the most. It is easy to perform (as well for women as for men) especially on a redeye flight, when most passengers are asleep and no beverage cart coming and going. The main attribute to your naughty action is the blanket! This will protect you from curious glancing and no glimpse of hands-in-pants will be caught.
Let’s discuss techniques! It sounds very romantic performing a mutual handjob, but it is not practical. I suggest doing it one at a time, if you want to remember it. This is because it is hard to concentrate on your partner’s orgasm when you are concentrating on yours. This way everybody is doing his job – one plays the other looks out, and everyone is happy. Further, go slow without freaky noises; otherwise you’ll have all the eyes on you. You also can try using some adult toys instead of your hands. Just make sure they are noiseless. A realistic dildo for ladies will do just great! Make sure you haven’t forgotten some lubricants.
The Blowjob: Are a little bit bolder? Then blowjob on the board is for you. The only condition is to have separate seats from unwanted watchers, because it needs more space and it is noisier than other techniques. Note that an on the board blowjob requires good skills so that no head bobbing can be visible. This is where your tongue, lips, hand goes to make the big deal! Put a blanket on the lap of your partner, kneel as far down as possible and have your way with him/her!
The Lavatory: Because of the little space doggy style works best (besides you can see the face of your partner and his/her ecstasy in the mirror). To have more space for in and out intrusions it is easier for the lady get one of her knees up on the sink. The advantage of the lavatory is that you can produce some noise and you need not to suffocate under blankets. The vertical cowgirl style works too! The male with the lady on his lap facing him works nice.
Add some fantasies by using some anal toys for double penetration, or some clit vibrators for double stimulation. Make it memorable!
In case the above doesn’t work for you because of the risk to be caught get small, private planes just for you! This will make you 100% relaxed and will offer you more freedom in your actions and space.

Words Of Encouragement And People Who Need Them

September 6th, 2009 by writer | Posted in General   Comments Off

There are numerous reasons why we feel the need for some free words of encouragement.What I am trying to say is that often times we are faced with certain circumstances that calls for more than just experience and zest to make it. If you have a family member who needs some some encouragement scriptures then why not read below to find out more about this very sensitive subject matter.

Someone dealing with the death of a loved one

Someone who has lost a loved one needs someone who can speak positively about the situation. They need to be around positive people and to hear positive words. Be weary of overdoing it. You need to be sensitive enough to know when and how to say it.

Grieving people go through various phases of grief and you need to be sensitive to understand the grieving process and what words to say at each stage.

A person who is just starting a new job

Being in a new office can be overwhelming for most people. So if you know someone who is just starting a new job then you have a candidate to help out. If the friend enjoys a good laugh, you can just send through some words of encouragement poetry about starting a new job.

Someone living in a foreign country

Being in a different country can be so intimidating especially if you can not understand the local language. If comes with the feeling of anxiety and being home sick. In fact a friend of mine fell into a major depression 2 weeks after moving into a new country. It took two months for the person to recover and start accepting her new environment.

Other than these, sick people also need some words of encouragement and also those who are locked up in jail. So while you are going about basking in the fulfilment of your life, do take sometime to say something good to a person who needs it.